How to Develop Self Discipline in Students
“Vision will get you inspired. Discipline will take you there.” ~Christine Caine.
To be a high-performing student, you need to have discipline in check. Often, we know what we need to do to achieve what we want but we always get sidetracked by other stuff. I have suffered events of procrastination and lack of discipline quite often.
Discipline, though we fail to acknowledge is the force to getting anything done. The thing about discipline is that it’s uncomfortable. Very uncomfortable. It kicks you out of your comfort zone. As a result of getting used to rules everywhere, in school, at work, we got used to extrinsic discipline.
Meaning that you only follow the rules because they have already been set and there are consequences if/when you fail to follow them. So, when you set your own rules you relax and slack because hey, you have a choice and no one will scold you.
As a student, here is how you can develop self-discipline as a student.
The Power of Self Discipline by Brian Tracy
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Lets be honest, who wouldn’t like a week of just slacking in the house watching a series or reading a book or doing whatever it is we do for fun? It is a very tempting activity, and when we get time off our already set schedules, that is what we do. Relax, unwind, have some ‘me time’.
Dreaming will paint a future for you, discipline will get you there
That’s why most of us have great ideas that we never execute, because we are never disciplined enough to do so. . Dreaming about your future is great, it gives you a starting point, but it will never get you there.
I had to put my life in order
For a long time, I knew what I wanted to do. Share knowledge, help people grow, create a whole training structure with great informative choices. I had it all at the back of my head, but never really got to do it. Aside from self-doubt, discipline is what I lack.
At some point, I found myself in a position where I didn’t have a choice but to get my life in order. After some soul searching, I realized I lacked discipline. I make schedules, rules, plans (I really do not like protocol) but if it is what I had to do to get things done, I vowed to do it.
One question that challenged me was when you are employed, don’t you wake up at 5, commute, sit at the office at allocated hours, whether you like it or not? Then why would you not do the same to work for yourself? I, therefore, scheduled everything I wanted to do and with a lot of struggle, I finally made a routine out of it.
The power of habit
In his book, The Power of Habit Charles Duhigg stresses the importance of making good habits in your daily life. It is through creating good habits that you move away from your old ones.
“Change might not be fast and it isn’t always easy. But with time and effort, almost any habit can be reshaped.” – Charles Duhigg
Once you schedule activities, and develop a discipline for working on them, it becomes a habit. This takes time, and effort, but later, it becomes part of your life. You do not need to be an extra ordinary person to get things done, you just need discipline to get you there.
“Champions don’t do extraordinary things. They do ordinary things, but they do them without thinking, too fast for the other team to react. They follow the habits they’ve learned.” Charles Duhigg
Get it done
As important as planning is, sometimes we spend so much time planning that we don’t get action. Or by the time we get to the action, we are already tired and our willpower is gone. Seth Godin in his book Brainwashed, calls getting it done, ‘shipping’.
Seth talks about how we make a lot of great products and services, but we don’t ship because of fear of failure, fear of ridicule, and fear of not being good enough. The key to getting it done is quieting this self-doubting voice and going out there and getting it done.
Procrastination: Today Matters
Huh, we all suffer from this, don’t we? I know I do and it is something I have struggled with for a long time. Procrastination is knowing you are supposed to do xyz today, but instead pushing it to tomorrow because by the look of your schedule, you can squeeze in time to do it. Since today you are not inspired enough, you push it to tomorrow.
John Maxwell’s Today Matters: 12 daily practices to guarantee tomorrow’s success; is one of my favorite books when it comes to getting things done. What you do today ripples out to the future, and when you push what’s for today to tomorrow you make tomorrow harder than it should be.
Someone once defined hard work as the accumulation of the easy things you didn’t do when you should have. — John Maxwell
First, if you work only when you are inspired, you will never get much done. Sometimes inspiration can evade us for a long time, especially if you are a creative. To deal with procrastination, create a schedule and stick to it.
You may have a million reasons not to get started now. But deep down, none of them can be as compelling as your desire to change, grow, and succeed. In a month or a year or five years from now, you may have only one regret — that you didn’t start now. Today matters. The way you spend today really can change your life. — John Maxwell
It’s alright to dream and dream big, but discipline is what will get you there.
How do you keep disciplined as a student? Does it work? Feel free to share in the comment section below, I’d like to hear from you 🙂